Hello! Hello! Hello! Anyone out there? Probably not. But for
my own record keeping I though it time to pop into the old bloggity blog and
dust it off a little bit. There’s a very good chance it will get dusty again
pretty fast but oh well.
So where to begin. I don’t even know. So I guess we will
start from the beginning.
February 5, 2012.
Super Bowl Sunday. The Giants beat the Patriots and I won the football pool in
Brett’s office. Oh yeah, we also found out Baby #2 was on his way. I’m the
worst at surprises and I don’t keep things from Brett well. I pretty much
blurted it out the second he walked in the door from the gym that morning.
Baby #2 |
And
so it began, our reassessment of everything that we knew to be true in our
life. Work, family, money. Everything. The conclusion was that we needed a
change for our family. We wanted to be in a smaller town. Brett needed more
time at home. I missed my family. And so
our journey began. When I say journey maybe that’s not the right word because
we had no idea where we would end up. Brett looked into a law license in
Pennsylvania, made some contacts and interviewed for a lot of jobs. What it
came down to was that nothing was going to change. He was interviewing with big
firms in Pittsburgh and we didn’t want to live in Pittsburgh. So instead of
sitting on the train for two hours every day, he would be driving for two hours
every day.
Fast forward to October 2013, Brett had flown to Pittsburgh
again, had another interview, meetings, etc. and came home with a different
plan entirely – he was starting his own law firm. It was a Friday night. The
boys were home with our babysitter and we were sitting at a bar. As Brett laid
out this plan in front of me it evolved from a crazy sounding idea into
something we thought may actually work. So we slept on it for a few nights and
eventually decided that yes this is in fact what we would do. From there, things
got crazy. Due to the opportunity that Brett had found, him moving to
Pennsylvania in January was a necessity, but it didn't make sense for me to
move in the middle of the school year. So on Friday June 10, as I left for
work, Brett got in our loaded up Uhaul #1 and moved to Pennsylvania by himself.
The boys and I spent the next 5 and a half months on our own. That is a whole
post in itself. What a difficult, humbly, exciting experience it was being a
full time single working mom to two amazing little boys. To say I learned a lot
about parenting and myself is an understatement. It did go by fast. Before I
knew it, I was putting PJS on these two by myself for the last time and on June
20, the boys and I anxiously waited for Daddy to come home to get us.
Our last night without Daddy |
The boys drove
back to PA with my mom and a good friend and Brett and I spent the next week
packing up our first home. We took advantage of being back in our first home just
the two of us again – we laughed a lot and cried a little. While we knew it was
the right decision, packing up our life and leaving everything we knew was
difficult.
One last date night in Wheaton |
Saying good bye to the house we made our home - two puppies and two babies later |
We are now settled into our “home”. Most of our stuff is in storage
and we are living in my childhood home. I was fortunate enough to find a job for
this school year as a part time high school special ed teacher, exactly what I wanted.
We found a new babysitter – she certainly couldn’t replace our Emma, but she is
doing great with the boys. Owen started preschool –yes, our baby started
preschool - and LOVES it. So for now, we continue to build
our new life together in a new state!
First day of school |
Always smiling |
The Law Office of Brett A. Clancy - we are so proud! |